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of feeling sorry for yourself or envying those who seem to have more or
better friendships, why not adopt a positive attitude, as Chinwe did.
She says: "particularly as a teen, I felt that I was being left out.
To overcome this, I studies people who had good friends. Then I tried to
develop the good qualities they had, to make myself a more pleasant
person.
One practical steps is to take care of yourself physically and otherwise. A healthful diet, proper rest, and adequate exercise all help you look and feel your best. Being neat, clean, and well groomed not only makes you more desirable to be around but also gives you a healthy measure of self-respect. However, do not fall into the trap of becoming overly concerned about outward appearances. In fact any lady that look costly always scare responsible men to go close to her notes Gaelle, from France. "What good people are looking for is the inner person" After all, our innermost thoughts and feelings affects what we talk about and even how we look. Do you have a confident outlook on life? This will help you to have a happy expression on your face. a genuine smile is the most attractive thing you can wear and, explains body language like the way Bidemi noie. "It is absolutely universal" and "is rarely misunderstood" Add to that a good sense of humor, and people will be naturally draw to you. Remember, such good qualities come from the inside. so actively fill your mind and heart with wholesome, positive thoughts and feelings. read about interesting and meaningful subjects, current events, different cultures, natural phenomena. Listing to good music. But avoid passily allowing Tv, movies and novals to clog your mine and emotions with fantasy. The relationship usualy portrayed on the screen are not real friendship, but the product of some one imagination. OPEN YOUR HEART! When I was in school, I was shy, and found it hard to make friends. But I knew that if we want to have friends, we have to take initiative, make ourselves known, and get to know others. Yes to have real friends, we must open up to others, let them get to know who we really are. Such communication and sharing are far more important to true friendship than having good looks and charismatic personality. "people with deep and lasting relationships may be introverts, extroverts, young, old, dull, intelligent, homely, good looking; but one characteristic they always have in common, openness." Observes counselor Dr Jack Okopy. They have a certain transparency, which allow people to see what is their hearts. This doesn't mean wearing your heart on your sleeve or revealing your innermost secrets to people you don't feel comfortable with. But it does mean selectively and progressively revealing your true thoughts and feelings to others. I had problems at first of how to conceals my feelings. I had to make changes, to try to manifest my feelings more, in order for my friends to understand what I was feeling and to feel closer to me. TO HAVE A FRIEND, BE A FRIEND Nearly 2,000 years ago, Jesus showed that the key to success human in all human relations is unselfish love. He taught "Just as you want men to do to you, do the same way to them. "(Luke 6:31) This teaching has come to be known as the Golden rule. Yes, the only way to have real friends is to be an unselfish, giving friend yourself. In other words, to have a friend, be a friend. To be successful, friendship must be more about giving than about getting. We must be prepared to put our friend's needs ahead of ours preferences and convenience. True happiness comes from giving. The person receiving is happy, but the giver is even happier. We can give simply by sincerely asking how are friends are Please understand with us. There is some information which we haven put with time we will finish the side. Mean well any information that you have and you feel it will of encouragement to some body pls. get to us through our contact and also let us know how you feel about the side. THANK YOU
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